LYCOS RETRIEVER
Fathers and Daughters
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"When kids are little and dad clearly knows what he can do and what his role is, in terms of activities and structure and discipline and all that, fathers have an easier time," she adds. "As girls start to become their own individual selves, a lot of dads have a harder time knowing how to connect." As Maine points out, in the early years fathers bring daughters into their lives—they go fishing together, ride their bikes, go the hardware store. "As she gets older, he has to go into her life more and be interested in her life."
As the fathers and daughters began returning to camp, there was a different air about their relationships. The experience seemed to make their bond much stronger. The fathers saw their daughters differently now. The daughters, too, saw themselves differently. They felt an exhilaration of having faced the night alone and a new independence of knowing they had accomplished something totally on their own. They had persisted, had overcome their fears, had become more confident and self-reliant in just a few short hours.
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Fathers and daughters are central to some of the most significant tales in Gower's poem. Using feminist and anthropological approaches, Bullon-Fernandez argues that father-daughter relationships, and the associated theme of incest that they sometimes suggest, enable Gower to examine authority relationships in three interconnected spheres: family, state, and text. She suggests that Gower perceived the relationships between kings and subjects and between authors and texts as similar to paternal relationships with a daughter; and further, that Gower regarded the law of exogamy as at the core of patriarchal society. As a father may not commit incest with his daughter and a king may not abuse his authority, so the writer (as in `Pygmaleon and the Statue'), must curb his desire to control the meaning of his creation. Thus, even as he is concerned with the limits of authority in the familial, political and textual realms, Gower ... exposes the inherently transgressive nature of such authority. Dr MARIA BULLON-FERNANDEZ is Assistant Professor of Middle English literature, Seattle University.
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Sleepy-eyed, the girls and their fathers prepared for the cold, wondering what was ahead. Slowly, the group began to form around the fire circle. It was time for these teen-age daughters to break from their fathers and go into the wilderness, to their "special spot" each had picked the day before. They would remain there alone for the next six hours meeting their fears and anxieties as they separated from the safety and protection of their fathers. They were about to go through a rite-of-passage never before performed in any culture - the passage from the world of the young daughter, not as a son would become a man but as a daughter would become a woman in the world of her father.
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[D]o fathers and daughters make good business partners? Jane talks to Enzo and Philippa Maffioli about the benefits and drawbacks of working together. They run a financial services business; a relationship which they trace back to the time when Enzo gave Phillipa the book 'Child’s Guide To the Stock Exchange' at the age of 8!
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In his operas, he often revisited themes between fathers and daughters. In 1851 he wrote Rigoletto after Victor Hugo's Le roi s'amuse. The story focuses on a cynical hunchback in the employ of the duke of Mantua. The main character is generally unpleasant and vindictive but he is redeemed by the love of his daughter Gilda. Verdi masterfully contrasts Rigoletto's spite at court with his incredible tenderness for his daughter. In typical opera fashion she dies at the end leaving Rigoletto distraught and completely alone in the world- sentiments that probably struck a deep chord with Verdi.
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